Speaking of strong and important women...I had a lazy gay Saturday catching up with the woman behind me...Jenny who had returned from China. It was good to meet up with her and catch up on life. She knows me really well and I use her as my pseudo therapist. We actually use each other…when I’m having a breakdown she’s there for me. And when she’s down..I’m there for her. We both worry about the time we both have breakdowns at the same time. I can ask Jenny all those intimate questions about women’s sexuality (like how big can clits get!) and straight sex (how often do you have to fake it!)….she has learned about blow jobs and anal sex from me. We have both promised each other that we will visit one another if we are ever in a mental institution. Jenny also promised me that I could be in the room whenever she gives birth…yeah..I’ll get to see her pussy!

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Like in a new job, four months serves as a relationship probation period. You are not too far into the relationship to get out…so you can still make a clean break. At the same time after four months you are able to decide if it has long term potential or not…. Probation is not all bad…it just means that you are getting to know the person a bit better. They stop trying to sell themselves and start being their real self. You see them interact with your friends. You see them break their diet…miss the gym…stop going to French class….you see their parking skills… just saying...in general..do not read into it..I will go back to the gym soon! Last week I was cranky. DG saw the bitchy me..the real me...the period before, during and after my period…I had a bad day at work…and he had to deal with it when I got home. Yesterday I saw another side to DG...not good or bad...just different…Luckily…we both have a month left of probation!

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In any relationship, there are the ups and downs…the break ups and make ups…and the deal breakers. They say that many couples break up after four months: this is usually the time when you get to see the real boyfriend or girlfriend…maybe four months is how long the honeymoon last…and when reality starts settling in…maybe that is the time when you start evaluating your relationship…when you weigh the pros and cons…when you compromise and start making deals.

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I can tell her anything…and I always do! Sometimes DG thinks there are three of us in our relationship…him, me and Jenny! He does have a point. Unlike him, I tend to tell Jenny and a few other friends about any issues in my relationship. I tend to run any concerns and situations by them…they are my reality check. I need that type of feedback and interaction. I value my friend’s or family’s opinions, feedback…suggestions. I know I can be a big drama queen and over react to situations..so it is always useful to get someone else’s perspectives. “Am I being unreasonable?” I keep asking Jenny. “Is this weird or am I just being psycho jealous?” I ask her. Usually she brings me back to reality. “You have a great boyfriend,” she says. “Stop worrying about this and enjoy it,” she adds! Jenny is becoming an expert in gay relationships…in gay life. Sometimes she curses her role as mistress fag hag. We spent a lazy gay afternoon in the heart of gay Sydney…surrounded with beautiful eye candy. "All the men in this city are gay," she says....she enjoys being the only girl in a room full of fags...but she also likes a bit of hetro play! So she would not mind being in front of a man (doggie style)...a straight (black or latino!)man for a change.

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I have been neglecting the blog! I have actually had to work in the last few weeks. It is a busy time of the year…the only busy time in my line of work come to think of it. It has also been a busy time socially….brunches, dinners, Sydney festival events, coffees…summer always is busy …and I’m feeling like a social butterfly except I am being attacked by annoying muzzies! I have been asked to write a raunchy article for a lesbian magazine. Well…it is not really totally lesbian..it is a gay magazine but the majority of the articles are geared toward women so I have to do a bit of research on raunchy lesbian themes. I have very limited sexual experiences with women..although I did make a girlfriend cum with my finger once in the laundry basement of our Uni dorm. I am very much in touch with my feminine side. They say behind every gay man is a great woman. It is very true. I think as gay men we identify with strong women: Cher, Madonna, Kylie...Ellen...Oprah..our own mothers. Some beleive that an overbearing mother is to blame for homosexuality!

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